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This is Not the Career I Ordered
5 ways to reinvent and reignite your work life
By Deborah Collins Stephens (illustration by John Grimes, Grimes Cartoons)

We Americans are quite an unhappy group when it comes to our work. According to the recent Conference Board report (February 2007), less than half of us are satisfied with our jobs, down a whopping 61% from twenty years ago. Today’s youngest workers ages 25 to 39 are the least satisfied with their careers. Nearly six out of ten of us are actively seeking new positions or considering starting our own companies.
Illustration by John Grimes www.grimescartoons.com, San Francisco, CA

All too often, nearly one in four of us are saying “This is not the career I ordered! Yet, we live in an age where nearly two billion dollars is spent by corporations on training and development to create work environments that help us thrive. We work in a time where employee loyalty has a direct and measurable effect upon customer engagements. Thus, the latest survey spells bad news for both employees as well as those who employ them.

How does one bridge the gap between our career aspirations and the day-to-day reality? Here are tips for turning around a stalled career:

1. Take accountability for your personal and professional growth: The buck stops with you. No company, boss, mentor or colleague can create the perfect job or the perfect environment. You owe it to yourself to take control of your future. It begins with a critical assessment of your skills, your strengths and areas for improvement. Begin a complete inventory and create a personal plan. Set goals and take action.

2. Invest in yourself: Find a coach or a career counselor that can provide you with valuable insight, critiques and an outsider’s point of view on your career goals and how best to achieve them. You wouldn’t build a house without a plan, so don’t underestimate what it takes to build a career. Start this process of investing in yourself even if you are in an entry-level position or a senior level executive.

3. Realize the importance of attitude:
If you don’t like the way you are feeling, the quickest and most effective way to change it is to change your thinking. Do everything possible to achieve a positive and optimistic attitude. Attitude is more important than education and skill. It affects your day-to-day performance and plays a role in every aspect of your life. The way you ‘see’ your career and your life is the way you will live it.

4. Give away your skills: Get involved in your community. Volunteer. Take on a leadership role. Amazing things happen when people give themselves completely to a worthy cause. They become energized. They learn important skills and form enduring relationships that make them feel good about themselves and their work.

5. Before you jump, look closely! I’ve spent two decades working with entrepreneurs. There is something almost mythical about building your own company, taking a big risk and creating the next new thing. Yet, many more fail than succeed. There are numerous opportunities inside of existing corporations for exercising the entrepreneurial spirit. Take a close look inside before you make the jump outside. You might be surprised by the opportunities you’ll find in your own corporate hallway.

We spend nearly half our lives in a workplace. We owe it to ourselves to create our own enriching experiences during those hours. What one thing can you do today, not someday, to turn the career you didn’t order into one you love?

Deborah Collins Stephens is Co-Founder of the Center For Innovative Leadership www.cfil.com. She is also co-author of the newly released book This Is Not the Life I Ordered: 50 Ways to Keep Your Head Above Water When Life Keeps Dragging You Down. www.thisisnotthelifeiordered.com.

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Spring 2007 issue of PBWC Connections

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